Sunday, 26 November 2017


Finding someone to be in a relationship is actually quite easy. Finding someone to be in a relationship that actually fulfills you, however, is a different story. So how do you find a relationship that truly fulfills your needs and desires? Setting your priorities straight and having realistic expectations will help guide you into the right direction in finding the relationship you have always wanted. Before you can do that though, you need to make sure that, you feel fulfilled on your own first.
So many people end up in relationships that do not fulfill them because they are entering the relationship with the wrong expectations and for the wrong reasons. A big example of this is someone entering a relationship as a way to feel complete. Many people feel unsatisfied with themselves and their lives, and believe that someone else will be able to fill in that gap for them. Placing the responsibility for your happiness on someone else is unrealistic, and will only result in disappointments in the relationship. You also need to acknowledge and accept the fact that there is no such thing as “the perfect relationship” and that there will be issues that will require teamwork and compromise.
Most people have the idea that if a relationship is truly happy and meant to be, then there never will be any problems and should not require so much work - it should just be happy. Well, if this is how you view relationships, then it is time to change your way of thinking before you set yourself up for more painful reality checks. If you are interested in finding a person to build a strong loving relationship with, the best thing to do would be to start by focusing on yourself first - and make sure that you have your life sorted out, before deciding to share it with someone else. Majority of people would read this say “ of course, it’s common sense” and while this may be true, people still enter relationship with unrealistic expectation, wrong reasons or before making sure they are fulfilled on their own first.
So if you feel you are ready to be in a serious, committed relationship, do your self a favor and take it one step at a time. Review the relationship you have with yourself first and make sure that you are truly happy with yourself and where you stand currently in your life. Ask yourself why you feel the need to be in a relationship, what you are prepared to invest into it, as well as what you are expecting from your partner. Sorting this out will help you understand your relationship goals and will help you understand what it is you need to look for in a person when trying to find a loving partner to share your life with.
Attraction is naturally going to be important to you, and it should be - for no relationship can really start or survive unless both partners are genuinely attracted to each other. Attraction, however, is not enough and before you decide to jump into a relationship with a person you are strongly attracted to, you are going to make sure that he or she also has the other important qualities that you are looking for in a partner. This is why you need to take it slowly and not rush into anything, just because you feel strongly attracted to someone.
There are many cases where people jump into a relationship based mainly on attraction, with an assumption (or hope) that the person will end up having all the qualities. When time passes and the person realizes that their partner is not who they thought or hoped they were, they are already deeply involved and often look at their partners as who they wished they were, rather than who they really are - and end up stuck in an unfulfilling relationship.
Therefore, the key to finding a fulfilling relationship is to never lose direction and to always remind yourself of what your real needs are, so that you do not end up in a relationship that does not meet your standards. There is a difference between compromising certain differences, and settling for a less-than-satisfying relationship. You also need to decide exactly what you are prepared to offer another person, so that you do not end up an overwhelming relationship that you were not ready for. Once you understand your real needs and the qualities you are seeking and understand your reasons for wanting to be in a relationship, you will know exactly what to look for…and will not get trapped dating anyone who does not fulfill you.
Sincerely, it is my desire that you find a fulfilled relationship and I encourage you to subscribe to my online newsletter. You will learn the Secret of Attracting And Keeping The Man of Your Dream! Sure you will agree with that there are numerous secrets you need to know so as to attract and keep that man you dream of. Mark the two words there - attracting the man in your life is not enough - you got to keep him for the rest of your life.
The main problem here, and the thing that can stand on your way, is that Men are not easy to understand. And when you find a good man, he doesn't come with an "instructional manual".
This situation is most dangerous when you meet a really Great Man (the man you love so much), but you don't know how to attract him or keep him. Let's face it, great men are hard to find... and when you do find one, you can't afford to lose him because you made a dumb mistake. You can't afford to throw away a good six months, a year... or even LONGER... and risk losing what could be a valuable relationship... just because you didn't know how to handle a particular situation.
Well, there is some good news here... I personally believe that there is something you can do about it. You can learn how to understand men and get them to be open up and understand you. You can learn how to attract that great man, and how to keep him.
And how do I know this? Because I am a man. And I've been in all the situations I just mentioned to you... from the other side. I've seen it from a man's perspective. I've been in those difficult "places" in dating, relationships, and love.

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